Manifest Your Shining Star and Build Confidence!

Have you felt invisible after turning 40, 50 or 60? You are not alone! Many women experience this sense of fading into the background as society tends to prioritize youth and overlook the wisdom and beauty that come with age. It’s not uncommon to feel like your voice is getting lost amidst the noise or that your presence is no longer noticed as it once was. The feelings of invisibility can be disheartening and can even take a toll on your self-esteem and confidence.

Imagine walking into a room and feeling a sense of self-assurance radiating from within. Picture yourself embracing your age with pride and shining brightly, making an indelible mark on everyone you meet. This article is here to show you that you can transform your perspective, manifest your shining star, and build unwavering confidence in yourself.

How It Makes You Feel

Feeling invisible can be an emotional rollercoaster. Trust me, as a woman over sixty who is 4’11 I don’t generally command attention when I walk into the boutique! Quite often I want to evoke Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman”  and go back later and say … “big mistake, big mistake!”.  For me it evokes feelings of self-doubt, inadequacy, and even frustration. You might find yourself reminiscing about the days when you received more attention and recognition, wondering why that acknowledgment seems to have waned. The fear of becoming irrelevant or overlooked can dampen your spirit and hinder you from embracing your true potential.

There are various scenarios where you might experience invisibility as a woman. Perhaps you’ve noticed that you’re not getting the same opportunities at work as your younger colleagues, despite your experience and skills. Or maybe you’ve felt ignored in social settings, as if your presence doesn’t carry the same weight it once did. These situations can be discouraging, but remember that we  have the power to change the narrative. It’s now or never!  

Manifesting Your Shining Star and Building Confidence

Moving forward, let’s focus on the positive journey ahead!  Today we can embrace and manifest your shining star and build the unshakable confidence we deserve!


Embrace Your Age with Pride: There are numerous inspiring women who have embraced their forties and beyond with pride and demonstrated that age is just a number.


One shining example is Jane Goodall, the renowned primatologist and conservationist. Throughout her forties and beyond, she continued her groundbreaking research on chimpanzees, tirelessly advocating for wildlife conservation, and inspiring countless individuals to protect the planet. Her unwavering commitment to her passion showcases the strength and wisdom that come with age.

Another remarkable woman who embraced her forties with pride is Michelle Obama. As the former First Lady of the United States, she demonstrated grace, intelligence, and resilience during her time in the White House and beyond. Michelle used her platform to advocate for issues close to her heart, such as education, health, and women’s empowerment. Her self-assurance and commitment to making a positive impact have left a lasting legacy for women of all ages to look up to.

By drawing inspiration from women like Jane Goodall and Michelle Obama, you will be encouraged to celebrate your age and recognize the strength that comes with it. Through self-affirmation exercises, you will learn to embrace every aspect of yourself, paving the way for newfound confidence.


Finding Your Unique Style: Finding your unique style is a journey of self-expression and self-discovery. Reflect on your personality, interests, and lifestyle. For example, if you love vibrant colors and patterns, consider incorporating bold prints into your outfits. If you prefer a more minimalist approach, focus on clean lines and classic pieces. Your style should align with who you are and what you do.

To further explore your unique style, create a style inspiration board. Collect images from fashion magazines, websites, or social media platforms that appeal to you. Pin these images on a physical board or create a digital one. Look for common themes and elements in the images to identify your style preferences. This exercise will help you visualize your desired style and provide a blueprint for your fashion choices.

Experiment with different looks and don’t be afraid to mix and match. Sometimes, you may discover hidden gems that suit you perfectly. Accessorize to enhance your style. Jewelry, scarves, hats, and belts can add a personal touch to your outfits and reflect your individuality. Consider sustainable fashion to add an eco-friendly and unique touch to your wardrobe. By supporting eco-friendly brands and incorporating vintage pieces, you can stand out from the crowd with your distinctive style.


Cultivating Personal Growth: Personal growth is an essential aspect of manifesting your shining star. Here are some tips to cultivate personal growth:

  1. Set Goals and Intentions: Take some time to reflect on your aspirations and set meaningful goals for yourself. Whether they are related to career, relationships, health, or personal development, having clear goals can give you direction and motivation.
  2. Embrace Lifelong Learning: Keep your mind engaged by seeking new knowledge and skills. Take up a course, read books, listen to podcasts, or attend workshops that align with your interests and passions. Lifelong learning not only expands your horizons but also boosts your self-confidence.
  3. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Growth often happens outside of your comfort zone. Challenge yourself to try new experiences, take calculated risks, and overcome fears. Each step beyond your comfort zone builds resilience and empowers you to embrace change.
  4. Practice Self-Reflection: Regularly engage in self-reflection to understand your thoughts, emotions, and actions better. This introspective practice helps identify areas for improvement and fosters personal growth.
  5. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: Surround yourself with supportive and uplifting individuals who inspire and motivate you. Cultivate relationships with people who believe in your potential and encourage your personal growth.
  6. Accept and Learn from Failures: Failure is a natural part of growth. Instead of letting setbacks discourage you, see them as opportunities to learn and improve. Embrace the lessons from failures, and use them as stepping stones toward success


Prioritize Self-Care and Taking Action Now:  It’s important to be intentional with our time and that’s prioritizing self-care.  

  1. Make Time for Relaxation: Set aside time for relaxation and activities that bring you joy. Whether it’s reading a book, meditating, or enjoying a bubble bath, relaxation rejuvenates your spirit.
  2. Prioritize Physical Health: Take care of your body by engaging in regular exercise, eating nutritious meals, and getting enough rest. Physical well-being is the foundation of feeling confident and empowered.
  3. Connect with Nature: Spending time in nature can be therapeutic and grounding. Take walks in the park, go hiking, or simply sit outside and breathe in the fresh air.
  4. Engage in Creative Pursuits: Explore your creativity through art, music, writing, or any other form of expression that resonates with you. Creative activities can be a source of joy and personal growth.
  5. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to commitments that drain your energy and prioritize activities that uplift you. Setting boundaries allows you to focus on what truly matters to you.
  6. Practice Mindfulness: Being present in the moment and cultivating mindfulness can reduce stress and enhance self-awareness

Perhaps as your next step, you may want to complete this free worksheet:  Invest in Yourself to start this process of self-exploration! 

Feeling invisible is a shared experience, but it doesn’t define who you are or what you can achieve.. It’s time to step out of the shadows and embrace the radiant, powerful woman you are today! Embrace your age, prioritize self-care, reinvent your style, and pursue your passions with determination. Your star is ready to shine brighter than ever before, and the world is waiting to be inspired by your brilliance! Take the first step towards transformation and embrace the journey of self-discovery and empowerment right now!

Please share in the comments below how you have embraced the radiant and powerful woman you are today!  What tips can you lend all of us?  

If you feel you are ready to explore your new career but don’t know where to start, please reach out to me via my website  and book a free exploratory call here.  Together we will discuss your situation and if life coaching is the best option for you right now!  

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Deborah is a professional, certified Life Coach who helps women over 40 take the steps needed to go from feeling bored and stuck to finding the confidence they need to prioritize themselves so they can finally pursue their purpose & passions!

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